In A House for Happy Mothers, Amulya Malladi tackles
some of the moral and ethical issues surrounding surrogacy programs in India.
Priya, an American born half-Indian, and her native Indian husband Madu, are
living the perfect life in Silicon Valley, save a child or two. After several
miscarriages, and considerable strain to their relationship, they try one last
time, via a surrogate in India. The baby is genetically theirs, but growing
inside the womb of Asha, a poor but proud mother of two. Asha has been coerced
into this by her family as a way to help secure their financial future and
provide a better education for their gifted son, but struggles to remain
detached from the life growing inside her.
This
book explores all of the questions that surrogacy in a poor country raises.
Yes, it’s providing a large sum of money to someone who probably lives on $2 a
day, but at what cost? There is a lot of shame associated with this practice,
and the women must pretend it never happened. They must go through all the
toils and discomforts of pregnancy and labor, without the gift of a child at
the end. We also see some characters coming back for a second or third time, as
either the money was squandered initially or because for a poor person, there
is never enough really.
While
there is a very hopeful and uplifting message to this book, having just read
and watched A Handmaid’s Tale and its
forced surrogacy program, it’s hard not to see some parallels. Apparently there
are more laws in place now to help protect the surrogates, and efforts have
been made to eliminate some of the worst offending “baby mills,” but it’s easy
to see how this is a situation still ripe for exploitation.
Finally, I listened to the audio version of this
book, and it is wonderful! The narrator, Deepa Samuel, does an amazing job with
literally dozens of different characters voices. She manages to create a unique
Indian accent for each one, and her performance was truly stunning. This is
definitely a book worth listening to.
Friday, July 21, 2017
Tuesday, July 18, 2017
The Most Dangerous Place on Earth by Lindsey Lee Johnson
The Most Dangerous Place on Earth by Lindsey Lee Johnson is a hard book to categorize. It's about teenagers, but is written for adults, with plenty of sex and drugs and shocking behavior. It takes place in a well-to-do suburb of San Francisco, following a group of kids as they grow from middle-school twerps to high-school aged perps. "Look at what awful things your despicable children could be doing!" This book screams this at every turn. First they gang up on a boy in middle school with unrelenting cyber-bullying until he jumps from the Golden Gate bridge. Then one has an affair with her teacher, another runs an SAT scam when not dealing drugs, a third runs away to star in gay porn films ... the list goes on, each chapter more tawdry than the last. At the center of it all is new teacher Molly, who wants to connect with the "cool kids" (she wasn't one herself), and thinks they're all angels and that she alone can make a difference. Molly is you, by the way, the parent who has their blinders on and thinks their child can do no harm.
Is this a cautionary tale of what parents might expect from their children these days? Besides the cyber-bullying, which wasn't available to us gen-exers, there's nothing in here that couldn't or didn't happen to teenagers a generation ago. We've just all glossed over those days, moved on to respectable adulthood, but then love to read about naughty teenagers in almost a cathartic way: "I was never this bad," or "My kids aren't doing this." Well, you might have or they might be, but do you really want to read a whole book about it? Still not sure what the answer is to that one.
Is this a cautionary tale of what parents might expect from their children these days? Besides the cyber-bullying, which wasn't available to us gen-exers, there's nothing in here that couldn't or didn't happen to teenagers a generation ago. We've just all glossed over those days, moved on to respectable adulthood, but then love to read about naughty teenagers in almost a cathartic way: "I was never this bad," or "My kids aren't doing this." Well, you might have or they might be, but do you really want to read a whole book about it? Still not sure what the answer is to that one.
Friday, July 14, 2017
Mrs. Saint and the Defectives by Julie Lawson Timmer
In Mrs. Saint and the Defectives, forty-something divorcee
Markie uproots her son and her life after her ex’s very public affair. She
lands in a new town next to an elderly French woman called Mrs. St Denis, or
Mrs. Saint to all those who can’t properly pronounce her name. Mrs. Saint takes
an instant interest in Markie and her current state of affairs, giving the term
“nosy neighbor” a whole new meaning. From getting her “defectives” – a group of
adults who have a variety of issues who seem to be supported by Mrs. Saint – to
help her move in, to new patio furniture and a dog for her son, Mrs. Saint
steadily works her way into Markie’s life, whether she wants her to or not.
This book is full of laugh out loud moments, as well as some
darker and more touching turns later on when we realize the true reasons
behinds Mrs. Saint’s motivations. What sticks out most for me about this book
is that it’s about Markie re-connecting with herself and her son. Too many
divorcee books feel compelled to include a new love interest along the way, as
if that is the only way for a woman to get back to herself. Bravo to Julie Lawson Timmer for breaking the mold a little.
Tuesday, July 11, 2017
Everything We Left Behind by Kerry Lonsdale
This book takes us back to the majorly f-ed up Donato
family, and if you haven’t read the first book, Everything We Keep, there is
almost no point in reading this one, as it’s hard to pick up the threads of the
plot – I even had a hard time in sections as I forgot some of the plot points
from the first book. Long story short, it is five years later and James wakes
up from his “fugue” state. He’s been Carlos for over six years, has two kids
and a long-term girlfriend, but remembers none of it. He wants to go “home” to
California and reclaim his former fiancée Aimee, and he uproots his family and
discards his old life. But remnants of Carlos remain, and there’s some
unfinished business with his cousin/half-brother Phil, who is about to get out
of prison.
James needs to remember the circumstances surrounding his
accident in order to know what kind of a threat Phil is to him, and he has to
navigate the increasingly complicated web of his family: Aimee has moved on
with Ian and has a child with him, his mother was pretending to be his neighbor
for the last five years to get to see her grandkids, and he somehow fell in
love with his dead wife’s sister. There’s plenty more sex in this iteration,
and the book moves along at a fast pace, making it a worthy beach read. Oh, and
there’s a hint at the end that there might even be a third offering in the
future, though if James/Carlos changes personality again I might not be
interested in the result.
Friday, July 7, 2017
Persons Unknown by Susie Steiner
When I reviewed the first book in the Manon Bradshaw series
I said I couldn’t wait to see where Susie Steiner takes Manon next. Little did
I expect it to be back to Cambrisdgeshire with not only young Fly in tow but
also a bun in the oven. Turns out she wanted a fresh start for Fly, and hoped
that by taking him out of the city he would not go down a bad path. Things
weren’t going so well for them though, and then 12 year old Fly gets arrested
for the murder of her sister’s son’s father. Of course, he didn’t do it, and
this novel follows Manon as she waddles through the secret investigation she
undertakes to clear her adopted son’s name.
Look, this is not a page-turning, action packed thriller.
Much like Missing, Presumed, it’s a slow-burn with lots of well-developed
characters and often funny twists and turns. A new character, Birdie, is
down-right hilarious, and we get a close peek into the machinations of her
mind. Schlumpy Davy is back too, and while it takes a while to get there, the
final outcome is downright shocking. And once again I love how this book feels
steeped in the UK, both in its tone and language. I don’t know if Manon will
come out for round three, or what possible/impossible circumstances Steiner can
put her in next time, but I’ll be eagerly awaiting it if she does.
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